THE DELILAH STRATEGIES: HOW TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND

For years now many pulpiteers and preachers have condemned Delilah as a prostitute and the one responsible for the ruining of the great man Samson.Of course she did.But then, I have this question for them: What made Samson keep coming back to Delilah even though he knew she wanted to find out the secret of his strength?

Could it have been just sex? I doubt. This is because there were prostitutes that Samson slept with but who didn’t have such infleunce over him to get him to come back.Or could it be that Delilah was the most beautiful girl in Philistine? I doubt that too.

I personally think that Delilah knew HOW TO KEEP HER MAN AT HOME.She knew how to make a man return back to her laps.

Here are few secrets I guessed she used and every woman can use to keep her man.IF A MAN IS UNFAITHFUL…THE WOMAN OBVIOUSLY HAS LOST GROUND AND HASN’T BEING DOING HER JOB WELL. Let me share with you some Strategies I feel can be of help.I call it….

DELILAH STRATEGIES:

DELILAH STRATEGY 1: SMELL GOOD; LOOK GOOD. Don’t dress in wrapper after you are married.When your husband comes back from work, what does he see? A woman wrapped like and old, worn out woman? But that is not what he sees at work on those lovely secretaries and co workers.

Don’t smell soup or smoke when he comes back from work.Smell good, romantic and be on your sexiest bump shot so that when he comes home, he wondering and staring at you.Prayer won’t keep your husband at home.This will!…prayers
come later on once you have done that.

DELILAH STRATEGY 2: COOK WELL. Your husband should WANT TO COME BACK HOME TO EAT YOUR MEALS.All that talk about the maid does that is foolish.After good sex, a good meal is what ANY MAN wants from his wife.Will your husband be able to call his friends over to his house to eat your meal? Sister, learn how to cook.Stop making excuses.

DELILAH STRATEGY 3: BE HIS NUMBER ONE ENCOURAGER: No one should praise your husband more than you.NO ONE.Let him know that you are his number one cheer leader.Ask him about his business.Don’t advice him, just listen to him. Listening is the biggest encouragement he can receive from you.

Tell him sometimes: “My lord, saviour of my body, the one who leads me…i admire you” Do you know that is scriptural?Submission is a charm. it activates love naturally.

Your husband is not your friend or partner, he is your Lord.Give him the honour.

DELILAH STRATEGY 4: GIVE HIM GOOD SEX. Let every sexual time be one he would remember. Read the book ART OF MARRIAGE by Tim Lahaye. It would be of great help. Don’t take your sexual lief for granted. Many do. I have talked with not less than 5 married men who complain about their wives inexperience and refusal to learn about sex.

Sex is an art.It can be learnt..but please do it in marriage. There is less guilt and you are on the side of God.God watches married people have sex.And he is disappointed when any of them goes away unfulfilled.He created it and believes that if we do it properly we can get it right.

All the best.

SIGNS YOU ARE STILL MISSING YOUR EX

1. SOCIAL MEDIA LASHING: You trash talk him on twitter and Facebook.

2. OVERDRESSING AND OVERCOMPENSATING:
You dress up in hopes you will run into him and when you do see him, you make your life seem really awesome..because, obviously, you are better off without him and he should see what you are missing!

Yet, you have got to realize what you are missing in making him the center of your life.

3. YOU COMPARE EVERYONE TO HIM:
Even if you think you are ready to start dating again, every time you meet a new guy, you make a list of all the ways he doesn’t measure up to your ex. Once you are really over him, you will measure men on their own merits.

4. YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN THAT HOT DUDE GIVING YOU THE EYE:
You have men throwing themselves at you left and right, eager to love the pain away. When you ex calls, however, you pick up right away.

5. YOU STILL CYBER STALK HIM:
The other day you while you wandering about Facebook, you noticed that a cute girl had left a flirtatious message on your ex wall. So you attempted to hack into her Facebook account, and scoured the Facebook pages of your ex’s mom, sister and grand mother for even the subtlest mention of either you or a new romance. I want you to know: This is unhealthy…and possibly illegal.

6. YOU ARE STILL HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX:
You still meet to have sex. Ex sex isn’t always a terrible idea..but it usually is. If you have recently broken up, you can’t have sex and expect that you won’t remain emotionally involved. So, straighten up.

7. YOU STILL HABOUR THE (NOT SO) SECRET FANTASY THAT THE TWO OF YOU STILL HAVE A FUTURE TOGETHER:
And this misguided belief is keeping you from living life or at least giving anyone new a chance to love you. While no one can really know what the future holds, it’s best to remember that break ups happen for a reason..And often, that reason was a good one. If you are holding back on your future, it is likely that you are stuck in the past.

Going through a terrible relationship break up can appear so crushing. You might believe you will never ever get over them. Or that your life will never be the same again. Although those feelings are very real in the first place, there is no reason to believe that you can’t get over it and move on.

Begin with closure.When a relationship comes to a horrible end, particularly if you are the one that was dumped just about all people need and require closure. This means that you have acknowledged the reality that relationship is over and you are ready to go on. You need to say it out loud and in your mind that the relationship is finished and believe it. If you believe there is a chance that you will get back together with your ex you will never be able to go on with your life.

Finger Painting Girls!

They are everywhere!

All they know how to do is look good. They can’t cook, are not domesticated, and want to rule a man in the household.

Everything about them is artificial. Their breast is artificial. Their nails are artificial. Their eye lashes are artificial. Even their attitude is artificial.

They claim to be career women…when actually they use career to hide their non feminine, non ‘wify’ tendencies.

If they get married…they rule the home.

Smart guys spot them quickly and avoid them.

Is finger painting bad? Well, no if it is done moderately. Beyond the finger painting and good looks, a wife should be able to juggle well between her career and her home

3AMAZING LADIES WHO RUN THEIR NGOS AND TOUCH LIVES

I first met Uduakabasi Okon in 2007 at a Mr. Biggs restaurant, Ikot Ekpene Road. Sincerely, at that period she was going through some relationship issues. But one thing that I remember about those eyes of hers was that they were determined eyes

Yes, she was a single mother. She had returned back from Lagos to Uyo , but she was determined to make something out of her life.After we talked, I told her to come to my office and I put her through some personal development training. She went through a program we call PROGRAM 7: THE 7 MOST IMPORTANT SKILLS IN LIFE. Uduakabasi Okon didn’t only go through this program she grew so fast and became a teacher of that program in PowerMinds Community.

Today, she runs a school called Elsha Vocational School, which has trained scores of people and runs a radio program in Uyo. People now call her mentor! It is amazing how a person whose life didn’t seem to have a direction suddenly had one.

Nikky-baby Israel Eshiet came for my special FACEBOOK LUNCH TIME OUT in February 11, 2012. After that, she stuck.She also was a single mother…but after an encounter with our program PROGRAM 7, she turned her mess into a message. Today, she runs an NGO called NIKKY & KIDS and is doing very well at it. Last year at the Women in Business Conference, she testified about how her life had truly made progress.

Eno-obong George always wanted to publish her book. She was directed to me.And we made it come true! But she didn’t stop there…she attended our program for Public Speakers and became certified as a speaker by PowerMinds.
Today, she runs her NGO in Oron, Akwa Ibom State and also runs a blog!

If they can , you too can!

Choose to be relevant.

Encounter….CHANGE through our programs

One way is to be part of the WOMEN IN BUSINESS CONFERENCE (II)

THEME: YOUR COMPETITIVE ADVANTAGE: STARTING, SUSTAINING & GROWING YOUR BUSINESS IN A SEEMING MEN’S WORLD

TO REGISTER: sms BUSINESS WOMAN to 07010656135
DATE: 23rd June, 2013.
TIME: 10AM- 4PM
REG: FREE

VENUE: BURMS CONSULTING HALL(UP STAIRS). 103 IKOT EKPENE ROAD, UYO, AKWA IBOM STATE.

AVAILABLE SEATS: 50

LESSONS TO LEARN:

(1) 5 Businesses you can start from Kitchen & Take the world.
(2) Home Business Ideas:Marketing Your Business to millions of people with just you laptop and modem as an office
(3) Strategic Fund Raising Strategies
(4) Writing a Powerful and Compelling Proposal
(5) Producing,Packaging & Promoting Body Cream
(6) Branding.
(7) CAC Registration and Business Legal documentations
(8) How to design a Commercial Blog in 20 minutes

SPEAKERS:

Consultants working with PowerMinds Community

To be part of it, sms BUSINESS WOMAN to 07010656135 now!

For enquiries call: 2347010656135

HOW TO ATTRACT A QUALITY WOMAN

Forget those traditional means of getting a flower or singing a song to woo a girl. The modern day woman looks for a complete package. Yes, that’s true! From good looks to great wealth, a woman wants it all. For attracting a woman, you need to be a man of her desires. The first important thing is to dress well. Making your presence felt among the crowd is a part of how to attract women. No matter what, a handsome man always makes her drool. Also smell fantastically. Do not overdo it. Smell just the right amount.

Look Good, Stand out Smart & Witty Too:

Well, do not think that only appearance is what attracts a woman. You must be equally wanting when you open your mouth. Women prefer smarter men to dumb. A bit of humor works the best! Moreover, you must be smart enough to put forward your opinions. Women like educated, bold and passionate men. Merely cribbing about what you have lost and living in the days gone by, shoos women away from your company. Moreover, who likes to unnecessary carry the burden of someone else’s emotions?

On the other hand, strong does not only refer to the mind, but you must be physically fit to turn her eyes on you. A healthy man speaks how well-to-do he is. To attract her you must carve out a striking personality. Instill a positive attitude in you and when you go and talk to her, ooze out your charm. Independent thinking and broad mindedness immensely attracts that quality woman to your side.

Every time you step out, make sure to groom yourself well. An unkempt man is a complete no-no to a woman. It is obvious to guess how she would feel to roam around with a mess beside her. Remain clean, flash you sparkling teeth and keep your hair well trimmed. Though the messy look is in, a messy man isn’t!

It is not impossible to gauge exactly how to attract women; instead you only need to be smarter for real! Do not understimate the woman. When you are talking to one, be what you are. Do not fake to be someone you are not. The moment she comes to know about your real self, you will end up losing her instantly. Yes, success and wealth matters to a woman but not dishonesty and fraud.

Carelessness is not liked by women. Here and there a cracking of jokes or fun activity once or twice is fine, but in general, you must have a sense of discipline in life. You must respect others around you and also be equally respected. A renowned man is loved by a quality woman .

Treat Her Like A Princess:

Most importantly, respect the woman in your life. Be a good listener when she has something to share with you. Give her your time and show how valuable she is. You are not required to get the moon or stars for her. Just make her realize what importance she has in your life. Certainly women love being pampered by their lovers. But that does not mean you become clingy or listen to everything she has to say. Sometimes you need to let your opinion surface. Women like men who are able to ascertain themselves and get their work done rather than giving up.

Thus it is not difficult either as to how to get a girl to like you. The funda lies with you and how original as yourself can you be. Make her realize that you have all the energy in you – to be rock solid. This definitely works with independent women.

Show her how daringly confident and romantic you are!

HOW TO MARRY THE WRONG PERSON

SINGLE BUT NOT STUPID 137:

How many couples are truly really happy in their marriages? If they want to be sincere with you, many of them are just tagging along. If they had a choice today would they still marry that man, that woman?

Consider the Saturday event that went literally viral on the internet, especially among bloggers. Solomon Akiyesi, popular Nollywood actor, tried to play a fast one on his wife. He left his pregnant wife in Portharcourt under the guise that he was going to shoot a movie in Lagos only for it to be discovered that he was going to wed his pregnant mistress somewhere at a church in Lagos. News had got to his wife who travelled all the way from portharcourt and stormed the church, disrupting the wedding.

When asked why he did what he did, Solomon Akiyesi simply said, “My marriage wasn’t just it” He had dated that lady for 7 years before marrying her for another 6 years. Making it a total of 13 years. Yet what did he say? “My marriage wasn’t just it”

How many couples are in such mess today? Plenty of them. They marry for stupid reasons and after struggling for many years…either scream their issues , walk away or do something as desperate as Solomon Akiyesi.

You don’t have to marry and be frustrated.You deserve to be happy. Let me share with you some ideas that would help you not marry the wrong person.I will show you this by reverse logic

How To Marry The Wrong Person

1. MARRY A PERSON BECAUSE AGE IS NOT ON YOUR SIDE: Research has it that people who marry early have a higher chance of breaking up or staying frustrated in marriage.The reason is because are usually too young to know what they really want. Mature people who marry in their late 20s and early 30s tend to know what they want, having experienced life, and can make informed choices that make and keep them happy for longer periods. Never hurry into marriage because you think you are old. Remember that your age gives you the advantage of experience. Take your time and make your decision.

2.MARRY A GOOD PERSON INSTEAD OF A GODLY PERSON: There is a difference.A good person goes to church, a godly person is church! A good person is nice and not a believer of Christ, a godly person is of the faith. Marry christian, someone who believes in Jesus.Never compromise that.

3. MARRY A PERSON WHO TAKES ACOHOLIC DRINKS: Yes, you heard me very right. A person who drinks is a potential cheater(Most people who drink cheat on their spouse). The person is a waster( Since drinking is addictive the person will waste money and resources). The person is a potential fighter.In the case of the man, chances are that he would beat his wife. For the woman, she will verbally abuse her husband and fight him.

4.MARRY A PERSON WHO IS NOT GOING YOUR WAY: Love doesn’t keep a marriage. Yes it can start the process of marriage….but it is similar values that keeps a marriage together.

5.MARRY A PERSON BECAUSE HE HAS POTENTIAL OR RESOURCES: Don’t get it twisted. The so called potential spoken of by that man who wants to marry you is still that…words. The most important thing is not that the man has potential but THE CONVICTION IN YOU THAT GIVES YOU PEACE TO MARRY HIM WITH OR WITHOUT ANYTHING. Also, the fact that the fellow is rich today is not proof that he would remain rich….It boils down to convictions.

6 MARRY A PERSON YOU HAVE HAD PREMARITAL SEX WITH: 90 percent of the weddings aren’t really holy matrimony as they put on their wedding cards. God in His wisdom says to leave the bed undefiled. You in your so called wisdom say , ‘how can marry someone i have not tested?’. Tomorrow you want God to be involved in your marriage. How can that be? Do it God’s way….and you are marrying right. Do it the other way…and no matter how anyone wants to garnish it…you are marrying wrong.

There are a lot more. But feed on these for now.

5 SPEAKERS, 2 DAYS, 1 EVENT THAT CAN MAKE YOUR YEAR THE MOST PRODUCTIVE YEAR EVER!

Yes it is 2013, and believe it or not, we are in the 7th day of the first month of the new year! The year has started rolling.Would you allow the year to pass you by? A lot of churches have started their 21 days or 30 days prayers for the year; an activity we also believe is okay.However, Don’t just pray, PLAN! Set concrete, workable, well thought through goals. Plan about your finances, your personal development, your relationship, your academics and all facets of your life. Don’t just pray, PLAN! Give the ONE you pray to something, some plan for HIM to breathe on.Set your sail so that God can send the wind.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In planning, you should prepare.Preparation means gather new information, relevant knowledge.Update so that you are not outdated.Acquire a new skill or possibly new skills.

Now that is what the PERSONAL GOAL SETTING AND ACTUALIZATION WORKSHOP 2013. It is a very powerful session you don’t want to miss.This JANUARY 25TH-26TH ,2013 Event is just for you. Sit with over 100 participants over a 2 day period through a number of teachings as you prepare for 2013.Our focus this year will be on increasing our finance.Is that what you want in 2013?

OUR RESOURCE PERSONS:

TEMITOPE ADEPOJU

TEMITOPE ADEPOJU

This smart entrepreneur and teacher will be showing us what it means to actually do business and succeed at it in 2013.Flying in all the way from Lagos, she will open people to Marketing ideas and strategies.She will also handle Business Management and growth

Gab Gabu

 

 

 

 

 

GABU GABU

Gab Gabu would treat on HOW YOU CAN MAKE LOTS OF MONEY ON THE INTERNET.This pharmacist turn info marketer will be with us all the way from Kadunna.He would share a lot of great ideas on Affiliate marketing, Google ad sense, Facebooking, tweeting for cash, attracting traffic to your blog, creating cash generating forums, taking your business online and much more in 2013

Olanike Adebayo

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OLANIKE ADEBAYO

Her Profile:Author, REAL DEAL,International Educational consultant,BSc(Hons),Member Commonwealth Education Council,UK,Post graduate researcher: Education,Health Promotion and International Development,University of London.Join us as we welcome Olanike Adebayo all the way from the United Kingdom to the City of Uyo to share some of her ideas to us at this event.

Timothy Anietie

 

 

 

 

TIMOTHY ANIETIE

Join us as we welcome Timothy Anietie all the way from Lagos to the City of Uyo to share some of his ideas on INTERNET BUSINESS to us at this event.His Topic: DESIGNING & MAKING MONEY FROM WEBSITES IN 2013.

George Essien

George Essien, Life Coach, Motivational Speaker and peak performance consultant will host the event with his very powerful team members of POWERMINDS COMMUNITY

THEME: HOW TO GENERATE FINANCIAL STREAMS IN 2013

As we begin the new year it is important that we are armed with information that would help us achieve mile stone success in our finances.Join POWERMINDS COMMUNITY as we begin the teachings on personal goal setting and financial understanding.The following would be taught a these 2 days event

1. HOW TO DEVELOP AN EFFECTIVE GOALS SYSTEM THAT HELPS YOU ACHIEVE YOUR FINANCIAL AND LIFE GOALS

2.13 BUSINESSES YOU CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IN 2013

3. 5 ONLINE BUSINESSES MAKING THE WAVES IN THE LAST 2 YEARS

4.HOW TO WRITE A MASTER BUSINESS PLAN FOR 2013

5.HOW TO PRODUCE, PACKAGE AND PROMOTE SOAPS, DETERGENTS,CREAMS AND WASHING BLEACH

6.FINANCIAL INTELLIGENCE FOR 2013:FUND RAISING STRATEGIES

7.DEVELOPING A PERSONAL FINANCIAL RECORD SYSTEM THAT WORKS IN 2013

8.HOW TO MAKE MONEY USING GOOGLE, FACEBOOK, TWITTER and WORDPRESS FREE BLOGS

9.THE POWER OF NETWORKING

These 2 days event will set the tone right for you as you begin the year.To be part of this event, please sms INTERESTED to 08187133153.Workshop is free but a compulsory material of N1000 will be given at the venue.It contains the time table of the 2 day event and the teachings to be taught all trough.

The venue can only accommodate 100 people so early registration is advised.Once you send the sms INTERESTED to 08187133153, a SEAT NUMBER would be sent to you in not more than 2 days from the day the message was received.So do it now.

HOW TO ATTRACT THE SPOUSE OF YOUR DREAMS

Marriage begins with YOU: Identifying who you are , what you have, what you like, and what you lack. It begins with self discovery. When you discover who you are, you know who don’t want.

Values are important. In fact, it is more important than the feelings of love, especially when it comes to marriage. In the long run, those things you value and share with your spouse are what will determine the longetivity of the relationship.

Until you discover yourself, your spouse cannot discover you. Self discovery leads to spouse discovery. When a woman becomes a wife in attitude and character, her husband shows up. If no man  is asking you for marriage, check yourself. The problem is not external, it is internal. Your values and personality create a magnetic flux around you. Young woman, if riff-raffs are the ones around you then the persona you are oozing is not that of a wife but of a harlot. Men sleep with girls but they marry wives.

What are your values? Have you made them habits, have you made them your life style? What are his/her values? Are they compatible with yours? What is your passion? Are your passions compatible or at least complimentary? They say, ‘opposite temperaments attract’ ; but it is similar values that will ‘glue’ the couple forever .Love is not what binds couples permanently together; it is  similar values.

Sex should never be your first motive for marriage. Remember that you will have plenty of it in the marriage. After all is said and done, something  in you would want a woman or man who shares similar or complimentary passions. Beauty is good, but go for content , for character.

When you find yourself, you find your spouse.

MY CONVERSATION WITH A LADY:

LIFE COACH: Why are you not married yet ?

 LADY: I have not seen the right man yet.

 LIFE COACH: That is not true.  And if it is so, it means that you have not become  the right woman yet. For when you become the right  woman the Right Man APPEARS.

 You are struggling with choice because you don’t know who are. Knowledge births peace, rest. Your eyes see your ‘bone of your bone; flesh of your flesh’ when you discover yourself. The law of attraction states: “You don’t get what  you want or who want ,you get who you are” The man or woman around you is  usually consistent with who you are. If what you see you don’t like, look back at you. Your relationships are a reflection of you. Like attracts like.

Courtship is not marriage. It is better to have a broken courtship than to have a broken marriage. The word ‘courtship’ seems to have the word ‘court’ embedded in it. One marriage counselor says, “Courtship is not for intercourse but for interview”. Another one said, “When you start touching, you stop talking”. Interesting. Determine your values.

Ask your ‘intended’ questions. What are his/her dreams? Where are you going to? Is she or he of the same faith? If so, what doctrinal values may cause trouble? How can they be solved? When engaged couples ask questions they solve a lot of problems.

Never be desperate. Young woman, remember that men do the finding, you do the positioning. Don’t just say ‘yes’ , think about it. There is joke said among bachelors that has some kind of wit in it. It goes: “If you ask a lady to marry you and she says no, DON’T ASK HER AGAIN. She is not your wife. Your real wife will not say ‘NO’. At worst, she will say, ‘Let me think about it’. If she says, ‘Let me think about it’, ask her again. If she says, ‘YES’ the very moment you asked her, WATCH AND PRAY. Either she is desperate or your real wife.”

Values are important. They will form the bedrock of your future family. They’d influence and shape your children. Similar values should inform your decision  for marriage, not desperation. I receive a lot of mails from ladies who are past 30 and desperately want  to make a marital decision. I sympathize with them. But if staying that long was because you didn’t find someone who shared like values, you are not  in the wrong track. Usually, however, your remaining unmarried is because you haven’t become a wife in attitude or character; or that your husband showed up and you were not sensitive enough to recognize.